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 Constantly don’t feel as happy as you used too? Feeling like you lost who were while being with this person. Trying to figure out if you should stay or go. Feeling extremely unhappy and no longer pretty. Then you are definitely losing yourself.

 In any friendship or relationship you should bee who you truly are, but gain to bee a better you. It should never bee the opposite. I often see people get into a situation and change completely. Losing the fun side of them and the element of truly not being as happy as they used too.  Relationships aren’t easy, you have ups and downs but you should never lose the essence of you.

My story: I have seen several of family members lose who they are in a relationship. Constantly with bags under their eyes because of stress, gaining weight, then losing weight, not having fun and they will often times tell me “Bianca make sure whoever you bee with, you are truly happy”. Seeing how they once were, to the person they have become I no longer see the essence of their beauty anymore. I see a stressed out person, who is unhappy. After they leave the situation you can tell how much happier they are now. Their skin glows, you constantly see a smile on their face.

Never lose who you are. Your beauty and how you feel about yourself.You should always have that glow and essence of you. I’m no expert, but I can tell when a person is truly not happy.

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